Heal your heart
and your life
and your life
with the past.
be loved.
happiness.
Been shattered by heartbreak
Broken another’s heart and you can’t forgive yourself
Realized you’ve spent your life caring for others and have no idea who you are
Become unrecognizable to yourself
Realized the person sleeping next to you feels like a stranger
Had your career take a turn in an unexpected direction
Received a devastating health diagnosis
Lost a loved one you just can’t seem to get over
Life has a brilliant way of using relationships and experiences to call forth our deepest wounds. You can either shrink from life and protect your heart from pain or you can use your heartbreak as an opportunity to heal and deepen your capacity to love and be loved.
One choice keeps you spinning in an endless loop of the past, the other breaks you wide open to create the life you desire. It may not feel like it right now, but your heartache can catapult you to a whole new level of healing, wisdom, and dare I say it … happiness.
Life has a way of expanding when you finally make yourself a priority. With coaching, put your healing first and have the support and guidance you need to make shifts from the inside out. When you live from the heart you can move beyond the obstacles holding you back from creating the life of your dreams.
Have you noticed, despite your best efforts and intentions, results are often short lived?
That’s because unless you change the belief that created the behavior, you’re likely to fall back into the same old patterns.
Coaching takes you on a deep dive to challenge – and change - the beliefs that drive your actions, choices, and behaviors. Coaching helps you rediscover your highest vision for your life – for the boldest, happiest you – because that’s who you really are when you get out of your own way.
Begin taking actions, one small choice at a time, and watch your life shift!
Uncover the lessons, wisdom, and the gifts of your relationships so you can free yourself from your painful past. Use your past to flush out and free yourself from your reactivity and feeling like a victim to uncover your role in life’s events so you’ll never repeat the past again.
Time may not heal all things, but with a lot of work and guidance we can heal and transform ourselves. By understanding and then shifting our thoughts, beliefs, patterns, and choices, you can begin creating an inspired future grounded in resilience and faith.
Use life’s challenges and heartbreaks to open your heart so you can expand your capacity to authentically know and love yourself and others. Develop a healthy, empowered relationship with your emotions and let your inner guidance inform your actions.
Everyone in your life has something valuable to show you - what you’re made of, what you’re willing to tolerate, and the parts of you that need to be reclaimed and loved. Develop practices that allow you to rise strong so you can embrace your worthiness and happiness.
I, too, have been sucker-punched by heartbreak, overcome by unwelcome transition, paralyzed by fear, panic, and shame.
There was a time when something felt broken in me and it was more than just my heart. Not only did I lose my ability to feel safe in the world, but my faith in life and in love disappeared.
The certainty of my future was all gone in instant. For me, that moment came when I received a voicemail that my husband was not coming home – ever. One night laughing and playing Yahtzee at the dinner table, the next he was gone without warning or explanation.
Devastated and terrified, everything I knew about my life, everything I built – love, safety, security - crumbled around me.
So you can see, I’ve walked in your shoes.
Now, with nearly 20 years of clinical experience as a marriage and family therapist and a certified integrative life coach with three life-coaching certifications, I not only have the professional experience, but also the personal experience, to show you what it means to take responsibility for your happiness, to rebuild your life on a solid foundation of self-reliance, and to live happily even after.
“Roberta gave me the confidence and the courage to heal my life! I was unrecognizable when I completed her coaching, and am doing things I would have been afraid to do in the past. I am setting boundaries without feeling guilty and asking for what I need from my husband. I have learned to trust myself and make decisions based on what I think, not what others think. All of my relationships seem better. I am much more peaceful and have a lot more confidence as a result of the coaching. Roberta’s ability to coach is simply off the charts! She’s so deeply compassionate, intuitive, and an expert listener, but she also held me accountable to follow through on things. The tools or skills I learned I use every day. I got much quicker results with Roberta’s coaching than from several years of off -and- on therapy. I learned to accept my past, take responsibility, catch myself in victim, and forgive myself for the mistakes I’ve made. Roberta is beyond awesome, talented, real, and I am so grateful to have been coached by her.”
/ DIANE /
“Roberta is masterful at coaching. I learned how to make changes in my life, one step at a time, that are lasting. I feel like a new person and focused on what I want in my life. I can’t say it was always easy, but it sure was worth it. One of the best decisions I made was to go through Roberta’s coaching!”
/ ASHLIE /
“I have done an immense amount of inner work over the years and was astounded at the extent to which I still benefited from Roberta's coaching. The results in all areas of my life were profound. Roberta’s ability to help me go deeper and deeper into my heart was unprecedented. The aspects of myself that were brought into the light with her gentle guidance were transforming and healing. There are no words to fully express my gratitude for Roberta's impact on my life. I highly recommend Roberta’s coaching to anyone who desires to experience life though a new and expansive frame of reference.”
/ KANDRA /
“Being coached by Roberta has literally changed my life. I’ve worked with Roberta on a number of issues, from my relationships, to my health, to my career, to my spirituality. With her years of expertise as a family therapist, and even more significantly, a profound union with her work as a life coach, Roberta was able to guide me to my deepest truths and help me connect the dots in ways I’ve never been able to in the past. Her immense heart, endless kindness, and palpable love of transformational work are gifts unlike anything I’ve ever experienced. It’s been a sacred journey with Roberta, and one I hope will continue in the future.”
/ SANDRA /